Painting Over the AsbestosOriginally printed in the Centreville Press August 4th, 2010
One can’t cure cancer by simply painting over the asbestos.
Europe’s greatest mistake over the past 50 years has been the serving up of tolerance. Contrary to the popular belief tolerance and understanding are not synonymous. Understanding is comprehension and enlightenment. If one understands how or why another possesses a certain belief or practice, it can lead to coexistence. Tolerance is forced acceptance. It creates caged animosity. This is how fires ignite just before reaching the powder keg.
In the United States tolerance has become the word of the century. While some of those who use the word have the best intentions, it can be a dangerous game. The difference between tolerance and understanding can be discovered by how those words are used in dealing with individuals. “Bob has his moments, but I understand.” That’s a fair assessment of Bob. It is something a friend would say about him. “Bob has his moments, but I tolerate him.” That’s not so fair. This suggestion pacifies a part of who Bob is. If Bob’s spouse said this, he might consider marriage counseling. While Bob’s wife might be tolerating him, the mailman might be understanding Bob’s wife.



